9 Quick and Effective Ways to Make Your Man Smile after a Hard Day

Posted by: Amanda on August 4, 2014

Bad days happen to everybody from time to time and it is an honored duty of every woman to make her man smile and help ease the stress. As men come back home they all want peace and comfort to restore the powers. We are to cheer them up and drag a smile out of them. When the situation is more serious than you`ve expected my advice is to combine a few methods in order to ease the strain. Here are some tried and effective ideas for you to use.

1. Be his support

In those days when it seems that everything goes wrong he needs your support. Talk to him, make him believe in himself and to try once again, inspire him to try something new and not to give up. Your support and belief in him are like a healing balm for your man. Having you on his side he will remove mountains. Hearing your incentive words he will not only forget his troubles and smile but also will be charged with positive attitude for the next day.

2. Make him talk it out

As a rule most men are not eager to talk about their problems, it is like complaining for them. But anyway he must know that you are there for him to hear him out. Don`t push but show that you care. As the guy has his heart swelled with hurt and anger he shouldn`t keep it inside. As soon as he relieves his feelings you`ll see him smile immediately.

3. Give him a long greeting kiss

After an evening phone conversation you can instinctively guess that your man not the best day out of all. So here is an option. Kiss him tenderly and sensually and passionately as he comes in and make him leave all the troubles at the back of the front door. I`m sure you`ll see a sweet tender and sexy smile slowly appearing on his face and his eyes starting to sparkle.

4. Cook his favorite meal

Do you know what his favorite meal is? Yes? Great! Take all the ingredients and start preparing. The moment he comes in and smells his favorite meal cooking he will understand that you care for him. It will lift his spirits in no time. There is a certain sense in the phrase “a hungry man is an angry man”. A peaceful dinner after a hard day is exactly what will make him smile.

5. Give him a massage

After a day full of stress and tension the best way for him to relax is to lie down and receive a long and sensual massage made by his beloved. A mixture of tender touching and caress are exactly what he needs. You will receive a grateful smile in return which is exactly what we need. After such a massage he will be enjoying a balmy sleep.

6. Embrace him

Of course you should kiss and hug your guy not only when he has bad days, isn`t it? But when he looks for your concern your embrace is needed extremely. Sometimes no words are appropriate and guys are rather sensitive beings who need a shoulder to lean on more that we think. A tight embrace might take all his worries away and a sunny smile will show up on his face.

7. Take him out

The best way to get away of problems he has is to change the scenery, to go out of house. Plan an unusual evening, take the situation into your hands. I`m sure he will be glad to have some rest from making decisions and to have you in charge. Choose to go to his favorite restaurants, go to play bowling or watch a film of his beloved genre. Any idea will go, just make sure that he`ll love it and it will be a good way to be distracted.

8. Be a tease

Nothing can be better than when you meet your man in a sexy outfit, teasing and flirting, after he had a bad day. It is a great way to distract him and to make all the problems go away. Passion and desire is exactly what you both need especially if intimacy has receded into the background because of being extremely busy. Show some creativity and imagination to become closer to each other and to revive your deep feelings.

9. Compliment him

When our strength is failing us we need our partner to cheer us up with pleasant words. As couples live together for some time they forget to tell each other how much they love and adore the partner. Tell him what a beautiful person he is and how you admire him. It is such a trifle but hearing a compliment will enhance his self-confidence and let him know that he is perfect for you. Men also want to feel loved and cared for.

Being in a relationship means taking up responsibility for another person. So when our beloved have had a terrible day it is our duty to support them and make all their problems go away. Anything you invent will go because it is just between you two. What do you usually do to bring his smile back on his face?

Source:  amerikanki.com

You Can Win Elections By Luck, But You Cannot Rule By Luck, Kwankwaso Tells Jonathan

Posted by: nick on August 4, 2014

Kano State Governor, Rabiu Musa Kwankwaso has said Nigeria needs strong leadership to overcome its security challenges and not someone who relies on luck to rule.

“What the President must realise is that nobody can run a country by luck. You can win election by luck, but you cannot be lucky all the time. So Goodluck as his name implies should look beyond luck in handling the affairs of this country. What Nigeria requires is a strong leadership that will stop all this nonsense or in the alternative, negotiate from the point of strength with the insurgents,” Kwankwaso said.

Kwankwaso said this yesterday, while speaking with reporters at his office. He advised the presidency to reduce the level of hatred and bitterness among Nigerians, if the government was actually interested in resolving the problem of insecurity.

According to him, the real cause of insecurity in the country is bad leadership being experienced in the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) -led government, noting that the inability of President Jonathan to tackle the issue of insurgency in the North and insecurity in other parts of the country has exposed Jonathan’s incompetence to preside over the affairs of Nigeria.

“Now, they are just using propaganda. Look at the issue of the abduction of Chibok girls. The schoolgirls have been in captivity and they kept arguing —where are the names, who are they, where are the photographs; they didn’t believe that over 200 children were abducted. Haba! Even if it is 20 tortoise or goats! Won’t you look for them? One of the reasons I love this country is that we have people of integrity in all the regions, in all the states like my former colleague, former Minister of Education, Dr. Oby Ezekwesili.

“This is somebody who worked at the World Bank, but now she has devoted her time to the cause of these girls. She is not from this part of the country, but she felt she had to take the bull by the horns and that is what we are seeing in developed countries — fight injustice, save people, help them, if you have the opportunity to do so. They sent some hawks to go and stop the protesters. The other day, I went to Abuja, I saw an advertisement, while Ezekwesili was saying ‘BringBackOurGirls’, some people were saying ‘vote for us, we want to stay and maintain the status quo; look at my photograph, I am smiling.’ And they don’t know time is of essence.

“At the moment, the country is in a critical situation, and if this madness is not stopped and if it is allowed to degenerate, and becomes the order of the day, whereby innocent people are being killed every day, then something is wrong with the leadership.

“What Nigeria requires now is a strong leadership that can effectively tackle the insurgency in the North-East, and other topical security challenges,” he said.

Kwankwaso then suggested that one major way to restore normalcy in the northern part of the country was to draw out a Marshal Plan for the region, and urged Jonathan to stamp his feet as the Commander –In-Chief of the Armed Forces, to tackle this security issue.

The governor challenged the President to think seriously about the statement made by General T.Y Danjuma, (rtd), who suggested that President Jonathan lead Nigerians to Sambisa Forest to rescue the abducted Chibok girls. [Vanguard]

Oops I Did It Again: Kim Kardashian Goes unclad Again

Kanye West’s wife — Kim Kardashian just loves to go unclad any little chance she gets, it even gets better when she’s paid ton do so.

To wish friend Riccardo Tisci – who designed her wedding dress when she tied the knot with Kanye West in Italy this May – a happy 40th birthday on Friday, the 33-year-old ex Playboy model posted a very provocative snapshot.

‘I love you soooo much!!! Can’t wait to celebrate with you tonight!!!!’ the E! star captioned the

Boko Haram Desperate To Bomb S’East, Warns Igbo Leaders

Posted by: nick on August 4, 2014

Igbo Leaders have urged the Federal Government to ensure ‘desperate attempts’ by Boko Haram insurgents to bomb the South-East does not materialise, warning that a successful attack in the region portended grave danger for the country.

In a statement by Evang. Elliot Uko, Deputy Secretary of the Igbo Leaders of Thought (ILT), entitled ‘The calm before the storm’, the tribal leaders described as worrisome the Sallah day arrest in Borno State of a long trailer laden with bombs and IED’s disguised as cattle merchants headed for Onitsha and Port Harcourt.

“This simply tells us that those who are committed to bombing the east are very serious at their plans,” the statement said.

“We have two choices facing us. One is to keep quiet and look the other way until it happens. The other is exactly what we are doing now: Raise our voice in warning, praying and hoping that this avoidable catastrophe would pass us by. Truth is that Boko Haram is desperate to bomb eastern Nigeria. We don’t want that to happen because the implications are clearly frightening.

Suspected Fulani Herdsmen Kill One In Kaduna Church Invasion

Posted by: nick on August 3, 2014

 

One person was reportedly killed while several others were injured following an attack on a Catholic Church in Ungwan Pau-Pau village, Kachia local government area of Kaduna state by gunmen suspected to be Fulani herdsmen on Sunday.

The incident was said to have occurred at about 8 am on Sunday when the gunmen invaded the Church during Sunday worship.

Eyewitnesses said a young man who was guarding the Church was killed while several others sustained injuries from gun shots and were rushed to the hospital in the area for treatment.

According to Timothy Gomel, a resident of the community, “The gunmen came with sophisticated weapons shooting and one person died instantly while several others have been admitted in the hospital. The Mass was going on when the gunmen came and started shooting sporadically and people started running in all directions.”

Borno Youths Ask FG to Investigate Ali Modu Sheriff Thoroughly

Borno Youth Submit Passionate Plea For FGN To Investigate Ali Modu Sheriff 

Ali Modu Sheriff, SAS, has caused unimaginable turmoil and turbulence in Borno and to Nigeria as a whole. Each time he comes to town, bombs go off as a sort-of welcome. No one can tolerate him any more in Borno, yet he is the safest man, able to drive solo to places no one else will dare. Borno youth have been begging and begging for the Federal Government of Nigeria, FGN to investigate him. 

Boko Haram Threatens To Attack Akwa Ibom

Posted by: nick on August 4, 2014

 

The Akwa Ibom State Government said yesterday that there are threats by insurgents to bomb designated markets, churches and public places in the state.

Commissioner for Information and Communications, Mr. Aniekan Umanah, in a statement, said the threats were contained in “text messages from a terrorist group, Boko Haram threatening the peace and security of the state.”

The Commissioner therefore advised members of the public to be security conscious and be extra vigilant by promptly reporting suspicious movements of strange elements that constitute security threats to security personnel for action.

Umanah however assured all indigenes and residents of the state of their safety as government has already directed security agencies to step up surveillance to tackle the threat as well as ensure the safety and security of lives and property including sensitive and important installations.

In the same vein, Umanah urged all law abiding citizens to go about their legitimate businesses as government was on top of the situation, maintaining that government was poised to sustain the peace and stable environment which made Akwa Ibom a safe haven for visitors, investors and her indigenes.

Mortician Arrested Over Stolen Corpse In Enugu

Posted by: nick on August 4, 2014

The mortician in-charge of the Christ Specialist Hospital, Enugu from where the corpse of Chief Theodore Ezeobi, a Senior Advocate of Nigeria, SAN, was reportedly stolen last Thursday morning has been arrested by the State Police Command.

Some unknown persons were said to have broken into the mortuary and forcefully removed the corpse of the legal practitioner who passed on four months ago.

The Enugu State Police Public Relations Officer, Mr. Ebere Amaraizu, confirmed to Vanguard that the mortician on duty when the corpse was stolen, was already being interrogated with a view to ascertaining how the corpse disappeared from the morgue.

“It is a true story that the corpse of the Senior Advocate of Nigeria from Anambra State disappeared from a hospital in Enugu and we are investigating the matter now.

“The mortician on duty that morning is in our custody and he is helping us in our investigations,” he said.

However, Vanguard learnt that the corpse may have been taken somewhere in Anambra State for the burial which was scheduled for last Thursday.

The funeral, which was well advertised was, however, aborted as security operatives were said to have stormed the village in search of those in possession of the controversial corpse.

Sources said the first son to the deceased, Theodore Junior Ezeobi, had placed a newspaper advertorial in which he fixed wake keep and the burial of his late father for last Wednesday and Thursday respectively.

But reports from the village said the wake keep did not hold Wednesday night though several canopies were set for the event at the family compound.

It was gathered that while the son was planning the funeral in line with the earlier announcement, the daughter of the deceased legal luminary, Chinelo Ezeobi, placed a counter announcement, a development that gave the villagers and the deceased lawyer’s friends and associates the impression that the family was in dispute.

The burial posters for the late SAN which was also signed by Theodore Junior for the family, was displayed in some locations within the town, including St. Theresa’s Catholic Church where a burial mass was billed to be held in his honour.

Chief Ezeobi hailed from Osikwu village, Awgbu, in Orumba North local government area of Anambra State.

REVEALED: It Was The PDP That Promised To Make Nigeria Ungovernable

*Genera Buhari Never Did!
For the record and your information, I, the author am definitely never PDP, but I am not APC either. I will only support the best human beings from whichever party they emanate. I am totally not a political animal; I am averse to democratic politics. The only party I ascribe to as yet and have invested thought and finance in is SNP. So for those taken to lies and slander, you can call me a paid whatever and APC author all you care, you will know deep inside that you do not even succeed in fooling yourself. My people, have never been in power, and I do not care and ever see power coming to my people. Now let’s proceed.

Mourinho blames referee for Bremen humble

Chelsea’s manager Jose Mourinho has pointed fingers at the referee Harm Osmers, that officiated the pre-season friendly between the Blues and German side Werde Bremen.

The former Real Madrid’s boss feels the referee was unfair with his decisions and perceives his officiating as a ”Circus” to impress the home supporters.

Speaking after the game, he said:

“I learned nothing from this game,” the Portuguese told reporters. “Our expectations are not fulfilled because, when we decided to have this match here in Bremen, we thought about an evolution in difficulty.

“We were expecting a fast game, a competitive game, but we come here and the referee thought this was a circus for Bremen fans – for them to have fun – and he killed the match.

“This game, for us, would have been perfect. I like the Werder Bremen team – they are fast, intense and they defend with a lot of people.

“The opponent is perfect for us to compete today but we couldn’t play.”

Chelsea lost the game by 3 un-replied goals.